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Alchemy Psychotherapy

acceptance & commitment therapy

Room for the hard things.

I offer Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) online to adults in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Florida, and Texas. I use ACT as a targeted clinical tool within an integrative practice — particularly for avoidance patterns, values clarification, and defusion from rigid thinking that keeps adults stuck in patterns they clearly recognize but can't shift on their own.

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what is it

What is ACT?

ACT is a behavioral and mindfulness-based approach developed by psychologist Steven C. Hayes in 1986. It's part of the third wave of cognitive behavioral therapy, sharing CBT's empirical foundation while departing from its core assumption that the goal of treatment is to change unhelpful thoughts and feelings. ACT's central contribution is psychological flexibility: the capacity to remain in contact with present experience, including painful thoughts and emotions, without suppressing them or being dominated by them, while taking action consistent with what you genuinely value.

The Association for Contextual Behavioral Science has documented over 1,000 randomized controlled trials examining ACT, making it one of the most researched psychotherapy approaches available. ACT works through six core processes: acceptance, cognitive defusion, present-moment contact, self as context, values clarification, and committed action — woven together as the clinical moment requires.

ACT is not about feeling better. It's about living better, including in the presence of whatever pain is unavoidable.

in session

What ACT sessions look like

ACT sessions are experiential rather than primarily didactic. A session might explore a pattern of avoidance: where it shows up, what it's protecting you from, and what it's costing you in terms of valued action. Defusion exercises help create distance from rigid thought patterns that have been experienced as facts rather than as mental events that can be observed without being obeyed.

Values clarification work explores what you genuinely want your life to be about, distinct from what you've been avoiding or chasing in response to pain. ACT concepts are drawn on when they serve the clinical moment, combined with IFS and somatic work when those frameworks address dimensions of the pattern that ACT alone doesn't fully reach.

An ACT session works to loosen the grip painful thoughts and avoidance have on behavior — not by eliminating the pain, but by changing your relationship to it.

what it treats

What ACT treats

ACT has been validated across anxiety disorders, depression, chronic pain, substance use, eating disorders, and PTSD. A consistent finding is its effectiveness where cognitive fusion — the tendency to treat thoughts as literal truths that must be obeyed or fought — is maintaining the difficulty.

Within my practice, ACT is most useful in three situations: avoidance patterns maintaining anxiety, burnout, or relational difficulty, where the client understands what they're avoiding but the avoidance feels stronger than the intention to change; values clarification for adults in significant transitions, identity confusion, or cultural conflict; and the meaning dimension of recovery from trauma, burnout, or substance use.

ACT is most useful wherever avoidance, rigid thinking, or disconnection from values is the primary driver of a stuck pattern.

why I use it

Why I use ACT

I use ACT because it addresses a dimension that depth-oriented and somatic approaches don't always reach directly: the client's relationship to their own mind and the behavioral patterns that relationship produces. For many adults, insight isn't the problem — they know they're avoiding intimacy, catastrophizing, or staying in depleting situations. What they can't do is choose differently consistently enough for the pattern to shift. ACT provides concrete tools for that.

I find ACT particularly useful in combination with IFS. IFS identifies the parts in conflict; psychodynamic work traces the history of those conflicts; ACT holds the question underneath both: what do I actually want my life to be, and what am I willing to do toward it?

I use ACT because it gives clients something concrete to do with the insights they've already accumulated, and a values-based direction to move toward.

fees and insurance

Fees and insurance

Biopsychosocial assessment · 60–90 min$300
Individual session · 45 min$250
Brief session · 30 min, when indicated$185

Alchemy Psychotherapy is a private-pay, out-of-network practice. A reduced fee is available in limited circumstances based on financial need and current caseload. I do not bill insurance directly, but I provide a Superbill on the first of each month for clients with out-of-network mental health benefits, and HSA and FSA cards are accepted. Under the No Surprises Act, you have the right to a Good Faith Estimate of expected charges before treatment begins.

begin

Begin acceptance and commitment therapy work

A complimentary 15-minute phone consultation, where we discuss what brings you in and determine fit.

Intake paperwork through a secure client portal.

The biopsychosocial assessment session of 60 to 90 minutes. If we're a good fit, you typically begin within one to two weeks. I'm currently accepting new clients across all four licensed states.

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A reply within two business days.

questions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, answered

What is acceptance and commitment therapy?

ACT is a behavioral and mindfulness-based approach developed by Steven C. Hayes in 1986. Rather than working to eliminate painful thoughts and feelings, it builds the capacity to hold them without being controlled by them, while taking action consistent with what you genuinely value. Psychological flexibility, not symptom elimination, is the primary goal.

What's the difference between ACT and CBT?

CBT works to identify and change unhelpful thoughts, treating them as problems to be corrected. ACT doesn't try to change or eliminate thoughts; it changes your relationship to them through defusion and acceptance. ACT also emphasizes values clarification and committed action as primary drivers of change, rather than the cognitive restructuring central to CBT.

What are the six core processes of ACT?

Acceptance of difficult internal experiences rather than fighting them; cognitive defusion, creating distance from unhelpful thoughts; present-moment contact; self as context, observing thoughts without identifying with them; values clarification, knowing what genuinely matters; and committed action, taking steps consistent with values even in the presence of difficulty.

What does an ACT session look like?

ACT sessions are experiential rather than analytical. They might involve exploring a specific avoidance pattern, practicing defusion from a rigid thought, or clarifying what you genuinely value and what actions are consistent with it. In my practice, ACT exercises are drawn on when they fit the clinical moment rather than applied as a fixed protocol.

Is ACT evidence-based?

Yes. The Association for Contextual Behavioral Science has documented over 1,000 randomized controlled trials examining ACT across diverse populations. Research supports its effectiveness for anxiety, depression, chronic pain, substance use, PTSD, and eating disorders. It's one of the most extensively researched third-wave behavioral approaches.

How long does ACT therapy take?

ACT can be applied briefly — several sessions for specific avoidance patterns or values goals — or as an ongoing dimension of longer-term integrative therapy. In my practice it's one component of an integrative approach, with duration determined by your presenting concerns and overall goals rather than a fixed protocol.